When we are young ,we dont know who we want to be ; we sort of ape everybody around. But when we reach around 30, we get to really know who we are and at that juncture, we must project out our real selves.
We should not give a wrong image of ourselves to people. Search and find out who we really are and what we stand for and then sync both your inside and outside.
Be courageous enough to present our true selves. Never fake it.